Understanding Japanese Girls: a Guide to Successful Dating.

Japanese girls are spectacular and just amazing, and it’s not the easiest thing to understand their deep personality, especially if you are a foreigner. However, it’ll be much easier for you to date a Japanese girl since ladies in this country often want to date foreigners. In general, Japanese ladies are usually very open to the relationship with foreign guys. So, if you are a man, then you will have good chances of meeting your love in Japan. So, how can you understand such an amazing girl? Are there any secrets to success? A Japanese woman is an ordinary girl, not an alien, so you should communicate with her, make her be interested in you, find common grounds, get her contacts and adapt to the situation. Nonetheless, there are some misconceptions and lack of information about Japanese women. Let’s figure everything out.

1. They don’t like to show feelings

In general, women in Japan don’t like to show their feelings and emotions in public compared to representatives of Western countries. The Japanese do not get used to holding hands, embracing and kissing in public places. It’s much more important to “understand the partner”. So, having a relationship with a Japanese girl, you will be expected to catch her feelings and read her mind, while she will not show them. The Japanese learn this throughout their lives, while European and American people prefer to say everything directly, so this “skill” is rarely seen. It may seem that a girl is cold with you, but in fact, it can be the usual conduct of Japanese women. When a girl doesn’t like or upset about anything, she will hardly tell you the reason right away, and you can face a challenge if you don’t notice any negative changes. In such cases, it is important to be able to notice the hints of the Japanese lady. If you overlook them, it will seem to you that nothing special is happening, while your girlfriend will begin to think that you are an insensitive egoist.

2. They are not shy

Japanese girls are not so shy or modest as you might imagine. Some of them can be completely shameless during some hanging outs, they can start asking some details of your intimate life or paying ambiguous compliments, etc. Of course, everything will depend on the person since everyone is unique in their own way, but many men often go to the other extreme and perceive Japanese women as almost the Asian Virgin Mary who is pure, modest, meek, etc. You should forget about those stupid stereotypes.

3. They don’t have illusions about relationships

These girls don’t have special illusions about the relationship between a man and a woman. If she agrees to go on a date with you, then most likely, there is no sense to wonder whether she likes you or not. You should know that they do not flirt without further developments, etc. However, if something goes wrong, a Japanese woman will honestly tell you that “nothing will come of it” or will simply start ignoring you or even blacklist. You can hardly meet Japanese girls who like to lead down the garden path or, as they say “to friendzone.” However, be ready that a kiss is a pretty intimate thing in Japan, so they will kiss a person with whom they are ready to have sex. That is, if a Japanese woman does not mind kissing you, then you may take further steps over time. Do not stop there.

4. They don’t like when men overdo with compliments

Compliments and romance are quite unusual in Japan. In general, romance doesn’t play such a crucial role as, for example, in a relationship with a Russian girl. Besides, compliments are perceived as a sweet lie. So, if you are going to pay compliments, try not to overdo with them. Besides, you can do without all of this at all.